What Does It Take To Find Love Online?

Stop and think about it...What does it take to find love online?
Believe it or not, internet dating isn’t for everyone. Many people need to accept that.

I have had conversations with both men and women. I am stunned at the number of people that believe they are in love...totally in love, after a exchanging a few emails and a couple of I.M. sessions. I think they are so tired of being alone, they latch onto this new person like a life line.

If you act out of desperation, you are choosing to ignore issues that will continue to slap you in the face:

Emails not being answered promptly. Phone calls not being returned at night and on the week ends. Your “love interest” refusing to give more information about themselves. Their emotions switch back and forth...from hot to cold and back again.

Now is the time to shut the “relationship” down. There are a few too many red flags. Before even meeting this person, he is already putting you through emotional changes! You should refuse to accept or tolerate it. Don’t you deserve better? I think so...

Whether you have what it takes to find love online or not, there are certain ground rules that must be adhered to. Don’t share them with your new “love interest”. Until you are sure you can trust this person, it would be like giving a robber your house key.

Will you accept the fact that most people online are not willing to commit to a monogamous relationship? Even though they will give you the impression that they are totally committed to you? (They are hoping you will take your profile down, and take yourself off the online singles market.)

Will you accept the fact that the person you are interested in, continues to pursue other people online? (Basically, they are still “shopping” for a better deal! But, they will be back if they can’t find one!)

Will you accept the fact, that at least 50% of their profile is probably a lie? Maybe they are small lies, or maybe they are much larger lies.

If you are unable to honestly say yes to all three of those questions, you may not have what it takes to find love online.


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I have been involved in online dating since the very beginning, and I have had a blast!

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