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Monday, June 9, 2008

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Friday, May 9, 2008


Lets face it, we all, at some level, dream of that perfect someone. We dream of that man or woman who will come into our lives and chase all those clouds of loneliness away. We want to be with that special person who understands us, adores us, loves us and is one with us. The idea of soul mates is not a new one and could very safely be said to be as old as the history of man himself. There is something within men and women that makes them seek out that special relationship with that special someone; that someone that is supposedly made especially for them. Unfortunately for too many though, the dream of finding their soul mate remains just that, a dream. These days, lots of people are starting to actually abandon this dream. However, the truth is that we really don't have to. Finding our soul mates is a possible and attainable goal when we go about it the right way. In my life as a single person I have had the privilege dating quite a number of wonderful ladies. In the course of all those dates I have come across some truly astounding women and some "ok" women. One of the things that I have come to believe is that we don't really have one soul mate. On the contrary, we have soul mates. Sounds kind of bizarre I know but that has been my experience in life and with women. That is why I don't believe that saying that says love comes only once in a persons life time. In my opinion, love comes more than once. In fact I would say that love comes many times in one's life. Now here is the question. If love comes many times over is there any need to value the love you've found now (especially since they are not perfect) if you could toss it away and find love again (and maybe someone better too) just around the corner? Why not trade the love you've found now for a better one? Well that's the catch. Each love experience is real and is unique. That's great to know actually but that's not the reason why you shouldn't be in a hurry to play around with the love you've found now. The real problem is that I have found that with most people, finding love takes time. In other words while you might always be able to find someone new to love and who loves you back in return, if you let go of your present love, chances are that it could take you anywhere from six months to three years or more to find a new love.

The bottom line is, take good care of the love you find because while you may always be able to find love if you wait long enough, finding true love takes time and too many times time is something we don't have enough of. If you doubt me ask a 55yr old man or woman who is looking for love. In my opinion they really don't have the luxury of dumping their old love in search for a new one just for the fun of it.

Now, enough of the blabbering. How really can one find ones soul mate? Below are outlined some steps that will definitely come in handy in your quest to locate you soul mate.

1. Know who you are

It's essential that you know who you are, know what you want, and know what it would take to satisfy you. In order for you to be adequately able to know what it will take to satisfy you in a mate you have to first have a healthy understanding of who your are. If you do not understand yourself, you will find it difficult to recognize the sort of person who will give you the love and understanding that you seek.

Know your strengths and your weaknesses. When you know this, it becomes easy to be able to identify the sort of person who will compliment you. One of the characteristics of a soul mate is that they compliment you. In other words, they are strong in lots of places in which you are weak.

2. Know what you want

Once you have gotten a good understanding of who you are, (your strengths, weaknesses and all), it becomes easier to recognize and identify the right man or woman for you. To really make this picture of who you want to be with clearer, I would suggest you took out some time to outline at least ten basic characteristics or behavioral and personality traits that your kind of person should have. It's like creating a shopping list. With a well prepared list it becomes easier for you to stay focused when you go "spouse shopping" and not to waste your valuable resources of time, energy and emotions on non-suitable members of the opposite sex.

3. Become better

Too often we neglect to get on with our lives and to achieve our dreams in other areas of our lives because we are too busy waiting for our soul mates; waiting for love. Unknowingly, too many people sabotage their chances of finding their soul mates and true love at that, by this very approach. Everyone loves a winner and the more confident and developed our intellects and our minds are the more attractive we are likely to be to members of the opposite sex. In your search for through love you must resist the temptation to put your life on hold. Don't let go of your dreams because you are too busy waiting for love to find you. Live your dreams instead and achieve your goals. In the process, you will unconsciously attract the love you desire through your new found self confidence.

4. Prepare to meet your soul mate

One of the most important skills we can develop as human beings is the skill of effective communication. Another important skill that we need to learn to help us have more success in our relationships in the skill of conflict resolution. When a couple learns to communicate properly, lots of unnecessary arguments are avoided and life as a couple tends to be much more enjoyable. Don't just sit on your butt doing nothing and waiting for love to find you, prepare to meet your soul mate. Read books, attend seminars, watch T.V program and get as much information as possible on how to build and sustain healthy and fulfilling intimate relationships with members of the opposite sex. Contrary to what the romance novels would make us believe, a good, fulfilling and successful relationship takes work and smart work at that.

You need to know what to do, how to handle conflict and how to get the best out your relationship if you want to avoid getting into unnecessary squabbles or worse still, losing your soul mate to a smarter more informed adversary.

5. Pray

Finally, last but not least, you need to learn to pray. Ok maybe you are not into religion but I must tell you that there is certainly something about meeting that special someone that is clearly divine.

There have been times when I was not very socially active and I have met some truly astounding women; women that could easily pass for my soul mate. On the other hand, there have been other times when I have been out there seriously single and searching but while I managed to meet ten times as much women at such times I have never been able to find a special woman through this approach. What I got when I went all out aggressively searching and depending on my own ability to chat up women was quantity but not quality.

In my experience, while you should not neglect opportunities to prepare to find love or learn the best line or approaches for meeting men or women, it is necessary that you get God involved in your searching if you really want to get it right. I believe that there is at least one right person for everyone on this planet. The challenge however is to get these two well suited people who have been searching for each other since they were both fifteen to meet. The love you seek or have been seeking for the past eight years might just be a few blocks away from you.

The truth is that it's really no use knowing how to sweep women of their feet if you never get the chance to use your skills in wooing the girl of your dreams; your soul mate. You need to get to meet her before you will get the opportunity to woo her. The same goes for a woman. It's no use knowing how to make every man feel attraction for you if you never get the chance to use your charms on the one that fulfills you. Lots of women know how to get a man's attention but unfortunately they have only been able to attract heart breakers and men who do not have their best interests at heart. That's where divine intervention comes in.

If you ask me, it takes divine intervention to orchestrate fate in such a way that two perfect strangers in a park and in the midst of hundreds of other people get the chance to notice each other, to see that glimmer in each others eyes as they stare at each other across the park. To feel their hearts skip a beat as they feel that special sensation start to flow through their veins. To reach out with trusting abandonment for each other as they seek to take hold of that for which they have searched for all their lives. If you ask me, only God can make this happen.

Taire Stephen is an author of several relationships and personal development books including, "Understanding men, understanding women, nice girls don't get Mr. Right, understanding relationships, why men run away from commitment" etc. Email: click here to get my free e-book titled "finding your soul mate" Meet singles online here You can receive more free tips by email by subscribing to his free newsletter at when you sign up as a free member.


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Taire stephen is the author of various including understandnig men and understanding women. website:

Wednesday, May 7, 2008

Increase Your Luck At Finding The Best Dating Site For You

With so many online dating sites, you really need to figure out which site/s will be the best dating site for you!
First, see what each site has to offer. Make a note...

Then from your notes join the site/s that has the most generous free trial offer.

You can also increase your luck at finding the best dating site by checking out each of the sites you are interested in. Try to find the sites that will allow you full access during your free trial.

Full access will allow you to browse all of the members, not only will you be able to receive emails you will also be able to send emails! You will be surprised at the online dating sites that will allow you to receive emails but you can't respond during your free trial!

So, by now you have selected a few sites you want to join on a free trial bases. You will want to keep notes as you browse. Whenever you find a Single you would like to get to know, write down the site name and the members User Name.

You will be able to increase your luck at finding the best dating site for you by reviewing your notes. When you are ready to join a dating site, consider the site that produced the best results for you.

It should ideally be the site that has the most members that have caught your attention.

Take your time when searching for the best dating site. You will be glad you did!

About the Author
Vivian has been involved with online dating since it's inception! This is her main dating forum, since there is no other place in the world where you can have access to millions of eligible singles!

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Thursday, April 3, 2008

Why do people date online? Psychology of online dating

Here is a list of reasons why men and women date online. Taken from Read on to learn the psychology of online dating.
It's anonymous / Secret

Most people like anonymity whether male or female.

Some men like to date on the net because they will not get caught by their girlfriend if ever they do it. Some men also believe that they can get more girls by dating online.

The above mentioned information is true with some women as well, they would like to meet new people in order to have more fun.

And most of all you could use an alias so that people will not know who you are. You can practically have a second identity online and your friends will never know.

Safe / cyber sex

Yes internet or online dating is safe up to some extent, online sex is safe because there is no physical contact initially, and there is no face to face intimidation. But if you start to meet people offline that's a totally different story.


The internet made a lot of things easier, it's been easier to send out letters to your love ones, to look for a new job, to book for an airline ticket, to look for a scholarship, to get a loan, and of course to get a date.

Stimulates the imagination

Dating on line gives some people the sense of being accepted or loved even if they don't really see or touch the person they are talking to. Most of the time, kind and loving words is what most people are longing for in a relationship, and that is exactly what they get when they go dating online. That's why some are even addicted to online dating.

It's an escape

For some people dating online is a form of an escape from a boring day at work or from a nagging wife. It also gives some people an alter world where they could explore themselves and their inner thoughts and feelings. So just like reading a very romantic pocket book or novel, online dating is very attractive and stimulating for those who would like to escape from harsh realities of their offline lives.

Is online dating really safe?

Yes it is, as long as you don't give out the following information on the net.

Your real name [You should not give your real name on the Internet whether in chat rooms or forums. Remember that there are a lot of online resources that you could go to, to find out who a person is. There are paid and free sources on the Internet where you could get vital information about a person, like a person's address, phone numbers or previous employers. So don't give out your real name to a stranger]

Phone numbers [Never give this out to strangers. So why would you give it to someone on the Internet, even if you've been talking to that person for several months or years you still have to be cautious, never give out your phone numbers specially your landline number.]

Email address [If you want to give out your email address make sure that it's not your personal email, it should just be secondary email you don't want to spammed or harassed ]

Your exact location [Don't give out your exact address or even the landmark where your house is located, you will be amazed how many people got into trouble by giving out a hint where they are located.]

Where to meet good people?

It's not always easy to find good people on the Internet, even paying for your membership is not an assurance that you will get good, kind and beautiful people online, but I found a very reliable site where people meet to chat or simply leave comments in their forums. It's this is a totally free site for people who would like to be safe on the net.

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Friday, March 28, 2008

Mistakes Most Singles Make Online

As singles, we are more than aware of the mistakes we make offline! But now we are on a different turf! The mistakes that most singles make online are...
Trying to come across as being too sexy or too much of a stud. For some reason, we believe that will attract more of the opposite sex. It will attract more of the opposite sex, but the "quality" of the singles you attract may not be the types of singles you would want to form a relationship with. It is usually better to be more selective when it comes to sharing the "sexual" side of ourselves online.

Another mistake, is not posting a photo. Maybe you don't want your ex, family, or co-workers to think you are that "desperate". It has nothing to do with desperation.

Whenever I see a profile without a photo, I always wonder why. In my mind, I automatically decide this person is trying to hide or they are very unattractive. If you feel you have to "hide" and "sneak" around on the internet to find your love interest? Then you really are not ready for internet dating yet.

Single women usually make the mistake of talking too much about their children. We don't have to convince the world we are the number one mom! This is not the forum for that. In the beginning, acknowledging that you have children is more than enough information.

Gentlemen commonly make the mistake of "show casing" their possessions and financial worth. Then they get a little confused when they continuously attract "gold diggers"!

If we try to avoid just these mistakes online, we will have better results!

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Wednesday, March 26, 2008

3 Keys To Finding Your Love Online

To go about finding your love online, it helps to have all of tools necessary from the beginning.
First, take your time finding the right site for you. You have so many choices! If you can imagine it? There is a site out there for it! If you narrow your site choices down to two or three? Try all three of them! Use the exact same profile to save yourself a little time. You may find one site will produce better results than others! Then when you decide to join a dating site, pick the one that worked the best for you!

Second, once you have chosen your site/s, you need to set up your profile. Here is where a lot of people try and take short cuts. Trust me...that is a huge mistake. Your profile is your online “face”. You want to be seen in the best possible light. You are wasting your time if you do not do this. It is difficult to find your love online if they can’t “see” who you are. Not only should there be a photo on your profile, there should also be a “part” of “you” in your profile essay. If you have a really unusual hobby, mention it. If you love poetry...include a passage from one of your most favorite poems.

Third, if you want to find your love online, you need to know exactly who you are looking for, and the type of character traits they must have. So many people claim they know exactly who and what they are looking for. But they get themselves involved with any and every body. There are too many people online...make your choices carefully!

The key to finding your love online is: select your site carefully, put your best “face” forward, and be sure you know who you are looking for!

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