Here is a list of reasons why men and women date online. Taken from http://www.PinayDating.tk Read on to learn the psychology of online dating.
It's anonymous / Secret
Most people like anonymity whether male or female.
Some men like to date on the net because they will not get caught by their girlfriend if ever they do it. Some men also believe that they can get more girls by dating online.
The above mentioned information is true with some women as well, they would like to meet new people in order to have more fun.
And most of all you could use an alias so that people will not know who you are. You can practically have a second identity online and your friends will never know.
Safe / cyber sex
Yes internet or online dating is safe up to some extent, online sex is safe because there is no physical contact initially, and there is no face to face intimidation. But if you start to meet people offline that's a totally different story.
Easy
The internet made a lot of things easier, it's been easier to send out letters to your love ones, to look for a new job, to book for an airline ticket, to look for a scholarship, to get a loan, and of course to get a date.
Stimulates the imagination
Dating on line gives some people the sense of being accepted or loved even if they don't really see or touch the person they are talking to. Most of the time, kind and loving words is what most people are longing for in a relationship, and that is exactly what they get when they go dating online. That's why some are even addicted to online dating.
It's an escape
For some people dating online is a form of an escape from a boring day at work or from a nagging wife. It also gives some people an alter world where they could explore themselves and their inner thoughts and feelings. So just like reading a very romantic pocket book or novel, online dating is very attractive and stimulating for those who would like to escape from harsh realities of their offline lives.
Is online dating really safe?
Yes it is, as long as you don't give out the following information on the net.
Your real name [You should not give your real name on the Internet whether in chat rooms or forums. Remember that there are a lot of online resources that you could go to, to find out who a person is. There are paid and free sources on the Internet where you could get vital information about a person, like a person's address, phone numbers or previous employers. So don't give out your real name to a stranger]
Phone numbers [Never give this out to strangers. So why would you give it to someone on the Internet, even if you've been talking to that person for several months or years you still have to be cautious, never give out your phone numbers specially your landline number.]
Email address [If you want to give out your email address make sure that it's not your personal email, it should just be secondary email you don't want to spammed or harassed ]
Your exact location [Don't give out your exact address or even the landmark where your house is located, you will be amazed how many people got into trouble by giving out a hint where they are located.]
Where to meet good people?
It's not always easy to find good people on the Internet, even paying for your membership is not an assurance that you will get good, kind and beautiful people online, but I found a very reliable site where people meet to chat or simply leave comments in their forums. It's http://www.PinayDating.tk this is a totally free site for people who would like to be safe on the net.
About the Author
Ollie Style is a writer / podcaster. You could read more of his articles at his blog - http://olliestyle.blogspot.com - He supports http://pinaydating.tk
Thursday, April 3, 2008
Friday, March 28, 2008
Mistakes Most Singles Make Online
As singles, we are more than aware of the mistakes we make offline! But now we are on a different turf! The mistakes that most singles make online are...
Trying to come across as being too sexy or too much of a stud. For some reason, we believe that will attract more of the opposite sex. It will attract more of the opposite sex, but the "quality" of the singles you attract may not be the types of singles you would want to form a relationship with. It is usually better to be more selective when it comes to sharing the "sexual" side of ourselves online.
Another mistake, is not posting a photo. Maybe you don't want your ex, family, or co-workers to think you are that "desperate". It has nothing to do with desperation.
Whenever I see a profile without a photo, I always wonder why. In my mind, I automatically decide this person is trying to hide or they are very unattractive. If you feel you have to "hide" and "sneak" around on the internet to find your love interest? Then you really are not ready for internet dating yet.
Single women usually make the mistake of talking too much about their children. We don't have to convince the world we are the number one mom! This is not the forum for that. In the beginning, acknowledging that you have children is more than enough information.
Gentlemen commonly make the mistake of "show casing" their possessions and financial worth. Then they get a little confused when they continuously attract "gold diggers"!
If we try to avoid just these mistakes online, we will have better results!
Put yourself in position to "choose"...not always waiting to be "chosen"!
Do you believe you deserve the person of your dreams? If so, get the skills you need to bring your dreams into reality Today!
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About the Author
Hi, I'm Vivian Johnson. I have been involved with internet dating since it's inception. I think it is great! It is the only place in the world where you can find millions of eligible singles...all in one place! There are only a couple of things you need to know...
Let's start here: Free For A Limited Time Only! ($27.00 value)
Get your Free Internet Dating Course http://www.realinternetdating411.com/FreeDatingCourse.html
Trying to come across as being too sexy or too much of a stud. For some reason, we believe that will attract more of the opposite sex. It will attract more of the opposite sex, but the "quality" of the singles you attract may not be the types of singles you would want to form a relationship with. It is usually better to be more selective when it comes to sharing the "sexual" side of ourselves online.
Another mistake, is not posting a photo. Maybe you don't want your ex, family, or co-workers to think you are that "desperate". It has nothing to do with desperation.
Whenever I see a profile without a photo, I always wonder why. In my mind, I automatically decide this person is trying to hide or they are very unattractive. If you feel you have to "hide" and "sneak" around on the internet to find your love interest? Then you really are not ready for internet dating yet.
Single women usually make the mistake of talking too much about their children. We don't have to convince the world we are the number one mom! This is not the forum for that. In the beginning, acknowledging that you have children is more than enough information.
Gentlemen commonly make the mistake of "show casing" their possessions and financial worth. Then they get a little confused when they continuously attract "gold diggers"!
If we try to avoid just these mistakes online, we will have better results!
Put yourself in position to "choose"...not always waiting to be "chosen"!
Do you believe you deserve the person of your dreams? If so, get the skills you need to bring your dreams into reality Today!
Free For A Limited Time - ($27.00 value!) Free Internet Dating Course http://www.realinternetdating411.com/FreeDatingCourse.html
About the Author
Hi, I'm Vivian Johnson. I have been involved with internet dating since it's inception. I think it is great! It is the only place in the world where you can find millions of eligible singles...all in one place! There are only a couple of things you need to know...
Let's start here: Free For A Limited Time Only! ($27.00 value)
Get your Free Internet Dating Course http://www.realinternetdating411.com/FreeDatingCourse.html
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
3 Keys To Finding Your Love Online
To go about finding your love online, it helps to have all of tools necessary from the beginning.
First, take your time finding the right site for you. You have so many choices! If you can imagine it? There is a site out there for it! If you narrow your site choices down to two or three? Try all three of them! Use the exact same profile to save yourself a little time. You may find one site will produce better results than others! Then when you decide to join a dating site, pick the one that worked the best for you!
Second, once you have chosen your site/s, you need to set up your profile. Here is where a lot of people try and take short cuts. Trust me...that is a huge mistake. Your profile is your online “faceâ€. You want to be seen in the best possible light. You are wasting your time if you do not do this. It is difficult to find your love online if they can’t “see†who you are. Not only should there be a photo on your profile, there should also be a “part†of “you†in your profile essay. If you have a really unusual hobby, mention it. If you love poetry...include a passage from one of your most favorite poems.
Third, if you want to find your love online, you need to know exactly who you are looking for, and the type of character traits they must have. So many people claim they know exactly who and what they are looking for. But they get themselves involved with any and every body. There are too many people online...make your choices carefully!
The key to finding your love online is: select your site carefully, put your best “face†forward, and be sure you know who you are looking for!
Put yourself in position to “chooseâ€...not always waiting to be “chosenâ€!
Do you believe you deserve the person of your dreams? If so, get the skills you need to bring your dreams into reality Today!
Free For A Limited Time â€" ($27.00 value!)
Free Internet Dating Course http://www.realinternetdating411.com/FreeDatingCourse.html
About the Author
Hi, I’m Vivian Johnson. I have been involved with internet dating since it’s inception. I think it is great! It is the only place in the world where you can find millions of eligible singles...all in one place! There are only a couple of things you need to know...
Let’s start here: Free For A Limited Time Only! ($27.00 value) Get your Free Internet Dating Course http://www.realinternetdating411.com/FreeDatingCourse.html
First, take your time finding the right site for you. You have so many choices! If you can imagine it? There is a site out there for it! If you narrow your site choices down to two or three? Try all three of them! Use the exact same profile to save yourself a little time. You may find one site will produce better results than others! Then when you decide to join a dating site, pick the one that worked the best for you!
Second, once you have chosen your site/s, you need to set up your profile. Here is where a lot of people try and take short cuts. Trust me...that is a huge mistake. Your profile is your online “faceâ€. You want to be seen in the best possible light. You are wasting your time if you do not do this. It is difficult to find your love online if they can’t “see†who you are. Not only should there be a photo on your profile, there should also be a “part†of “you†in your profile essay. If you have a really unusual hobby, mention it. If you love poetry...include a passage from one of your most favorite poems.
Third, if you want to find your love online, you need to know exactly who you are looking for, and the type of character traits they must have. So many people claim they know exactly who and what they are looking for. But they get themselves involved with any and every body. There are too many people online...make your choices carefully!
The key to finding your love online is: select your site carefully, put your best “face†forward, and be sure you know who you are looking for!
Put yourself in position to “chooseâ€...not always waiting to be “chosenâ€!
Do you believe you deserve the person of your dreams? If so, get the skills you need to bring your dreams into reality Today!
Free For A Limited Time â€" ($27.00 value!)
Free Internet Dating Course http://www.realinternetdating411.com/FreeDatingCourse.html
About the Author
Hi, I’m Vivian Johnson. I have been involved with internet dating since it’s inception. I think it is great! It is the only place in the world where you can find millions of eligible singles...all in one place! There are only a couple of things you need to know...
Let’s start here: Free For A Limited Time Only! ($27.00 value) Get your Free Internet Dating Course http://www.realinternetdating411.com/FreeDatingCourse.html
Monday, March 10, 2008
Adult dating - there is safety in numbers
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Sunday, March 2, 2008
What Does It Take To Find Love Online?
Stop and think about it...What does it take to find love online?
Believe it or not, internet dating isn’t for everyone. Many people need to accept that.
I have had conversations with both men and women. I am stunned at the number of people that believe they are in love...totally in love, after a exchanging a few emails and a couple of I.M. sessions. I think they are so tired of being alone, they latch onto this new person like a life line.
If you act out of desperation, you are choosing to ignore issues that will continue to slap you in the face:
Emails not being answered promptly. Phone calls not being returned at night and on the week ends. Your “love interest†refusing to give more information about themselves. Their emotions switch back and forth...from hot to cold and back again.
Now is the time to shut the “relationship†down. There are a few too many red flags. Before even meeting this person, he is already putting you through emotional changes! You should refuse to accept or tolerate it. Don’t you deserve better? I think so...
Whether you have what it takes to find love online or not, there are certain ground rules that must be adhered to. Don’t share them with your new “love interestâ€. Until you are sure you can trust this person, it would be like giving a robber your house key.
Will you accept the fact that most people online are not willing to commit to a monogamous relationship? Even though they will give you the impression that they are totally committed to you? (They are hoping you will take your profile down, and take yourself off the online singles market.)
Will you accept the fact that the person you are interested in, continues to pursue other people online? (Basically, they are still “shopping†for a better deal! But, they will be back if they can’t find one!)
Will you accept the fact, that at least 50% of their profile is probably a lie? Maybe they are small lies, or maybe they are much larger lies.
If you are unable to honestly say yes to all three of those questions, you may not have what it takes to find love online.
About the Author
I have been involved in online dating since the very beginning, and I have had a blast!
Find out more and arm yourself with a few online dating skills.
Online Dating Skills - Works Very Well Offline Too!
For A Limited Time Only - 3 Free Online Dating Reports
http://www.realinternetdating411.com/freereports.html
For more dating tools, take an actual peek at the chapters in Real Internet Dating 411.
http://www.realinternetdating411.com
Believe it or not, internet dating isn’t for everyone. Many people need to accept that.
I have had conversations with both men and women. I am stunned at the number of people that believe they are in love...totally in love, after a exchanging a few emails and a couple of I.M. sessions. I think they are so tired of being alone, they latch onto this new person like a life line.
If you act out of desperation, you are choosing to ignore issues that will continue to slap you in the face:
Emails not being answered promptly. Phone calls not being returned at night and on the week ends. Your “love interest†refusing to give more information about themselves. Their emotions switch back and forth...from hot to cold and back again.
Now is the time to shut the “relationship†down. There are a few too many red flags. Before even meeting this person, he is already putting you through emotional changes! You should refuse to accept or tolerate it. Don’t you deserve better? I think so...
Whether you have what it takes to find love online or not, there are certain ground rules that must be adhered to. Don’t share them with your new “love interestâ€. Until you are sure you can trust this person, it would be like giving a robber your house key.
Will you accept the fact that most people online are not willing to commit to a monogamous relationship? Even though they will give you the impression that they are totally committed to you? (They are hoping you will take your profile down, and take yourself off the online singles market.)
Will you accept the fact that the person you are interested in, continues to pursue other people online? (Basically, they are still “shopping†for a better deal! But, they will be back if they can’t find one!)
Will you accept the fact, that at least 50% of their profile is probably a lie? Maybe they are small lies, or maybe they are much larger lies.
If you are unable to honestly say yes to all three of those questions, you may not have what it takes to find love online.
About the Author
I have been involved in online dating since the very beginning, and I have had a blast!
Find out more and arm yourself with a few online dating skills.
Online Dating Skills - Works Very Well Offline Too!
For A Limited Time Only - 3 Free Online Dating Reports
http://www.realinternetdating411.com/freereports.html
For more dating tools, take an actual peek at the chapters in Real Internet Dating 411.
http://www.realinternetdating411.com
Thursday, November 29, 2007
Is Online Dating That Much Fun
Online dating is fun because you can meet and talk to as many people as you like. If you find a few to continue an online relationship with, you do not have to disclose this information to anyone. This makes it easy for you to explore different avenues when looking for a companion. You might want someone as a friend, but want someone else for a relationship. Online dating can be adventurous and exciting. You might even compare it to a popular television show "The Dating Game". It is the same thing except you make the rules and only meet the person that you want.
Many online dating sites have an area where you can sign up and pick people from the list to correspond with, this makes it easier to find some people that have similar interests and feel the same way about things that you do. Online dating can be fun because the people are interesting and you meet a mixture of people. You might find out that someone has an interest that you would like to try. The thing about online dating is you have to take it slow. Online dating is not like going out on a blind date, you are meeting people you may not have ever thought about for a relationship.
Building friendships is the only way to have a successful online dating experience. Many people join online dating sites to make friends. You never know if someone wants a relationship or a friendship. Besides the online dating sites, there are the social networking sites, but these are different from dating sites. You do not have the ability to protect your personal information or that of your friends as you do with a dating site. Even so, these sites are fun for meeting new people and getting a good conversation going.
Even though the sites are secure, you need to be careful about who you meet and give your information to before getting to know the person. Some people can spend hours conversing with others while others pick just one person at a time. You can still meet people from your area or people from far away. If you are looking to relocate or have relocated, online dating is a good way to meet new people. You can look for people in your area or the surrounding area for a possible relationship or just for friendships.
Some people have a hard time meeting new people for the first time and carrying on a conversation, but online or a on a phone, people can open up and talk. This is another great aspect of online dating. If you are a little shy, you can establish a communication with someone and that helps ease the tension of a first time meeting. When you get to know people online, you can choose the time to divulge information or remain anonymous. I am sure that You will find dating even more fun when you meet people through an online dating service.
About the Author
If you need strong advice on how to date online then please visit our online dating site. Also take a look at our article section if you want some quick online dating tips.
Many online dating sites have an area where you can sign up and pick people from the list to correspond with, this makes it easier to find some people that have similar interests and feel the same way about things that you do. Online dating can be fun because the people are interesting and you meet a mixture of people. You might find out that someone has an interest that you would like to try. The thing about online dating is you have to take it slow. Online dating is not like going out on a blind date, you are meeting people you may not have ever thought about for a relationship.
Building friendships is the only way to have a successful online dating experience. Many people join online dating sites to make friends. You never know if someone wants a relationship or a friendship. Besides the online dating sites, there are the social networking sites, but these are different from dating sites. You do not have the ability to protect your personal information or that of your friends as you do with a dating site. Even so, these sites are fun for meeting new people and getting a good conversation going.
Even though the sites are secure, you need to be careful about who you meet and give your information to before getting to know the person. Some people can spend hours conversing with others while others pick just one person at a time. You can still meet people from your area or people from far away. If you are looking to relocate or have relocated, online dating is a good way to meet new people. You can look for people in your area or the surrounding area for a possible relationship or just for friendships.
Some people have a hard time meeting new people for the first time and carrying on a conversation, but online or a on a phone, people can open up and talk. This is another great aspect of online dating. If you are a little shy, you can establish a communication with someone and that helps ease the tension of a first time meeting. When you get to know people online, you can choose the time to divulge information or remain anonymous. I am sure that You will find dating even more fun when you meet people through an online dating service.
About the Author
If you need strong advice on how to date online then please visit our online dating site. Also take a look at our article section if you want some quick online dating tips.
Dangers of Online Dating - Six Ways To Keep Yourself Safe In Cyberspace
Internet dating is becoming a lot more mainstream, as folks from every walk of life connect and find their soul mate in cyberspace. So how do you protect yourself while trying to meet new people you may wish to date? Here are six tips to finding that special somebody while still preserving your privacy and safety online.
1. Avoid huge, public chat rooms where anything can (and usually does!) happen. Some users frequent these areas just to see what they can get away with. Instead, choose smaller, more targeted web internet sites or chat rooms that match your interests or life-style. There are many internet dating sites that cater to particular hobbies and several offer free trial memberships.
2. Once you find a chat room, dating site, or forum that meets your interest, introduce yourself with only as much information as you feel comfortable presenting. Do not plaster your telephone number, address or any other private information on the site. Hold off until you encounter somebody with whom you truly "click" and have talked to them for a while. Common sense and that "gut feeling" are outstanding indicators for when something just does not feel quite right.
3. Participate in the discussion board or chat room on a regular basis. Keep it "low-key" until you begin making friendships with the regular members there. Be honest, and be yourself - after all, being natural is what will endear you to a particular partner.
4. Keep your correspondence confined to e-mail and chat until you get to know the individual well enough to feel comfortable sharing your phone number and speaking for the first time. If you need a good ice-breaker, begin the chat by discussing the forum or chat room where you met and any particular interests that brought you together.
5. If you choose to meet one another in person, choose a neutral, public place. You may even choose a town or city that is not the same as the one where you dwell. Restaurants, parks, theaters and other public locates where folks meet frequently are a good place to begin. Alternately, you could decide to attend a special event in your area together, possibly a concert, festival or fair. Either way, let family or friends know where you are going and who you are going with, as well as what time you will be coming back so they will know how and where to contact you.
6. If you are interested in several online "matches" that come your way, look at setting up a post office box and a free e-mail account to share information with each other. That way, if you come to discover that you really do not "click" with this individual, you will not feel as though you have given any personal contact information away.
If you stick with these six tips, chances are you will have a wonderful time with your cyber date. Remember to be honest and be yourself! If you do, probabilities are that you will discover that idealized special somebody who relishes you for who you are! Oh, and you will be having a lot of fun too, while keeping yourself safe online.
About the Author
Kelly Jones, better known as blushgirl has been in the online dating scene since 1996. Her experience in the field helps her answer questions on romance and relationships for her site visitors and allows her to meticulously review dating and matchmaking sites. Kelly has provided a guide to the best online dating sites on the Internet right now at: http://www.squidoo.com/adult-dating-sites
1. Avoid huge, public chat rooms where anything can (and usually does!) happen. Some users frequent these areas just to see what they can get away with. Instead, choose smaller, more targeted web internet sites or chat rooms that match your interests or life-style. There are many internet dating sites that cater to particular hobbies and several offer free trial memberships.
2. Once you find a chat room, dating site, or forum that meets your interest, introduce yourself with only as much information as you feel comfortable presenting. Do not plaster your telephone number, address or any other private information on the site. Hold off until you encounter somebody with whom you truly "click" and have talked to them for a while. Common sense and that "gut feeling" are outstanding indicators for when something just does not feel quite right.
3. Participate in the discussion board or chat room on a regular basis. Keep it "low-key" until you begin making friendships with the regular members there. Be honest, and be yourself - after all, being natural is what will endear you to a particular partner.
4. Keep your correspondence confined to e-mail and chat until you get to know the individual well enough to feel comfortable sharing your phone number and speaking for the first time. If you need a good ice-breaker, begin the chat by discussing the forum or chat room where you met and any particular interests that brought you together.
5. If you choose to meet one another in person, choose a neutral, public place. You may even choose a town or city that is not the same as the one where you dwell. Restaurants, parks, theaters and other public locates where folks meet frequently are a good place to begin. Alternately, you could decide to attend a special event in your area together, possibly a concert, festival or fair. Either way, let family or friends know where you are going and who you are going with, as well as what time you will be coming back so they will know how and where to contact you.
6. If you are interested in several online "matches" that come your way, look at setting up a post office box and a free e-mail account to share information with each other. That way, if you come to discover that you really do not "click" with this individual, you will not feel as though you have given any personal contact information away.
If you stick with these six tips, chances are you will have a wonderful time with your cyber date. Remember to be honest and be yourself! If you do, probabilities are that you will discover that idealized special somebody who relishes you for who you are! Oh, and you will be having a lot of fun too, while keeping yourself safe online.
About the Author
Kelly Jones, better known as blushgirl has been in the online dating scene since 1996. Her experience in the field helps her answer questions on romance and relationships for her site visitors and allows her to meticulously review dating and matchmaking sites. Kelly has provided a guide to the best online dating sites on the Internet right now at: http://www.squidoo.com/adult-dating-sites
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