As singles, we are more than aware of the mistakes we make offline! But now we are on a different turf! The mistakes that most singles make online are...
Trying to come across as being too sexy or too much of a stud. For some reason, we believe that will attract more of the opposite sex. It will attract more of the opposite sex, but the "quality" of the singles you attract may not be the types of singles you would want to form a relationship with. It is usually better to be more selective when it comes to sharing the "sexual" side of ourselves online.
Another mistake, is not posting a photo. Maybe you don't want your ex, family, or co-workers to think you are that "desperate". It has nothing to do with desperation.
Whenever I see a profile without a photo, I always wonder why. In my mind, I automatically decide this person is trying to hide or they are very unattractive. If you feel you have to "hide" and "sneak" around on the internet to find your love interest? Then you really are not ready for internet dating yet.
Single women usually make the mistake of talking too much about their children. We don't have to convince the world we are the number one mom! This is not the forum for that. In the beginning, acknowledging that you have children is more than enough information.
Gentlemen commonly make the mistake of "show casing" their possessions and financial worth. Then they get a little confused when they continuously attract "gold diggers"!
If we try to avoid just these mistakes online, we will have better results!
Put yourself in position to "choose"...not always waiting to be "chosen"!
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About the Author
Hi, I'm Vivian Johnson. I have been involved with internet dating since it's inception. I think it is great! It is the only place in the world where you can find millions of eligible singles...all in one place! There are only a couple of things you need to know...
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Friday, March 28, 2008
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
3 Keys To Finding Your Love Online
To go about finding your love online, it helps to have all of tools necessary from the beginning.
First, take your time finding the right site for you. You have so many choices! If you can imagine it? There is a site out there for it! If you narrow your site choices down to two or three? Try all three of them! Use the exact same profile to save yourself a little time. You may find one site will produce better results than others! Then when you decide to join a dating site, pick the one that worked the best for you!
Second, once you have chosen your site/s, you need to set up your profile. Here is where a lot of people try and take short cuts. Trust me...that is a huge mistake. Your profile is your online “faceâ€. You want to be seen in the best possible light. You are wasting your time if you do not do this. It is difficult to find your love online if they can’t “see†who you are. Not only should there be a photo on your profile, there should also be a “part†of “you†in your profile essay. If you have a really unusual hobby, mention it. If you love poetry...include a passage from one of your most favorite poems.
Third, if you want to find your love online, you need to know exactly who you are looking for, and the type of character traits they must have. So many people claim they know exactly who and what they are looking for. But they get themselves involved with any and every body. There are too many people online...make your choices carefully!
The key to finding your love online is: select your site carefully, put your best “face†forward, and be sure you know who you are looking for!
Put yourself in position to “chooseâ€...not always waiting to be “chosenâ€!
Do you believe you deserve the person of your dreams? If so, get the skills you need to bring your dreams into reality Today!
Free For A Limited Time â€" ($27.00 value!)
Free Internet Dating Course http://www.realinternetdating411.com/FreeDatingCourse.html
About the Author
Hi, I’m Vivian Johnson. I have been involved with internet dating since it’s inception. I think it is great! It is the only place in the world where you can find millions of eligible singles...all in one place! There are only a couple of things you need to know...
Let’s start here: Free For A Limited Time Only! ($27.00 value) Get your Free Internet Dating Course http://www.realinternetdating411.com/FreeDatingCourse.html
First, take your time finding the right site for you. You have so many choices! If you can imagine it? There is a site out there for it! If you narrow your site choices down to two or three? Try all three of them! Use the exact same profile to save yourself a little time. You may find one site will produce better results than others! Then when you decide to join a dating site, pick the one that worked the best for you!
Second, once you have chosen your site/s, you need to set up your profile. Here is where a lot of people try and take short cuts. Trust me...that is a huge mistake. Your profile is your online “faceâ€. You want to be seen in the best possible light. You are wasting your time if you do not do this. It is difficult to find your love online if they can’t “see†who you are. Not only should there be a photo on your profile, there should also be a “part†of “you†in your profile essay. If you have a really unusual hobby, mention it. If you love poetry...include a passage from one of your most favorite poems.
Third, if you want to find your love online, you need to know exactly who you are looking for, and the type of character traits they must have. So many people claim they know exactly who and what they are looking for. But they get themselves involved with any and every body. There are too many people online...make your choices carefully!
The key to finding your love online is: select your site carefully, put your best “face†forward, and be sure you know who you are looking for!
Put yourself in position to “chooseâ€...not always waiting to be “chosenâ€!
Do you believe you deserve the person of your dreams? If so, get the skills you need to bring your dreams into reality Today!
Free For A Limited Time â€" ($27.00 value!)
Free Internet Dating Course http://www.realinternetdating411.com/FreeDatingCourse.html
About the Author
Hi, I’m Vivian Johnson. I have been involved with internet dating since it’s inception. I think it is great! It is the only place in the world where you can find millions of eligible singles...all in one place! There are only a couple of things you need to know...
Let’s start here: Free For A Limited Time Only! ($27.00 value) Get your Free Internet Dating Course http://www.realinternetdating411.com/FreeDatingCourse.html
Monday, March 10, 2008
Adult dating - there is safety in numbers
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Sunday, March 2, 2008
What Does It Take To Find Love Online?
Stop and think about it...What does it take to find love online?
Believe it or not, internet dating isn’t for everyone. Many people need to accept that.
I have had conversations with both men and women. I am stunned at the number of people that believe they are in love...totally in love, after a exchanging a few emails and a couple of I.M. sessions. I think they are so tired of being alone, they latch onto this new person like a life line.
If you act out of desperation, you are choosing to ignore issues that will continue to slap you in the face:
Emails not being answered promptly. Phone calls not being returned at night and on the week ends. Your “love interest†refusing to give more information about themselves. Their emotions switch back and forth...from hot to cold and back again.
Now is the time to shut the “relationship†down. There are a few too many red flags. Before even meeting this person, he is already putting you through emotional changes! You should refuse to accept or tolerate it. Don’t you deserve better? I think so...
Whether you have what it takes to find love online or not, there are certain ground rules that must be adhered to. Don’t share them with your new “love interestâ€. Until you are sure you can trust this person, it would be like giving a robber your house key.
Will you accept the fact that most people online are not willing to commit to a monogamous relationship? Even though they will give you the impression that they are totally committed to you? (They are hoping you will take your profile down, and take yourself off the online singles market.)
Will you accept the fact that the person you are interested in, continues to pursue other people online? (Basically, they are still “shopping†for a better deal! But, they will be back if they can’t find one!)
Will you accept the fact, that at least 50% of their profile is probably a lie? Maybe they are small lies, or maybe they are much larger lies.
If you are unable to honestly say yes to all three of those questions, you may not have what it takes to find love online.
About the Author
I have been involved in online dating since the very beginning, and I have had a blast!
Find out more and arm yourself with a few online dating skills.
Online Dating Skills - Works Very Well Offline Too!
For A Limited Time Only - 3 Free Online Dating Reports
http://www.realinternetdating411.com/freereports.html
For more dating tools, take an actual peek at the chapters in Real Internet Dating 411.
http://www.realinternetdating411.com
Believe it or not, internet dating isn’t for everyone. Many people need to accept that.
I have had conversations with both men and women. I am stunned at the number of people that believe they are in love...totally in love, after a exchanging a few emails and a couple of I.M. sessions. I think they are so tired of being alone, they latch onto this new person like a life line.
If you act out of desperation, you are choosing to ignore issues that will continue to slap you in the face:
Emails not being answered promptly. Phone calls not being returned at night and on the week ends. Your “love interest†refusing to give more information about themselves. Their emotions switch back and forth...from hot to cold and back again.
Now is the time to shut the “relationship†down. There are a few too many red flags. Before even meeting this person, he is already putting you through emotional changes! You should refuse to accept or tolerate it. Don’t you deserve better? I think so...
Whether you have what it takes to find love online or not, there are certain ground rules that must be adhered to. Don’t share them with your new “love interestâ€. Until you are sure you can trust this person, it would be like giving a robber your house key.
Will you accept the fact that most people online are not willing to commit to a monogamous relationship? Even though they will give you the impression that they are totally committed to you? (They are hoping you will take your profile down, and take yourself off the online singles market.)
Will you accept the fact that the person you are interested in, continues to pursue other people online? (Basically, they are still “shopping†for a better deal! But, they will be back if they can’t find one!)
Will you accept the fact, that at least 50% of their profile is probably a lie? Maybe they are small lies, or maybe they are much larger lies.
If you are unable to honestly say yes to all three of those questions, you may not have what it takes to find love online.
About the Author
I have been involved in online dating since the very beginning, and I have had a blast!
Find out more and arm yourself with a few online dating skills.
Online Dating Skills - Works Very Well Offline Too!
For A Limited Time Only - 3 Free Online Dating Reports
http://www.realinternetdating411.com/freereports.html
For more dating tools, take an actual peek at the chapters in Real Internet Dating 411.
http://www.realinternetdating411.com
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